BLISSFULCOW

Day 14 POST SURGERY

2012-01-31T17:41:00.001+08:00

I honestly do not remember why I agreed to have surgery. Was it in Hong Kong last November where I was in pain most the time because of those long walks to and from the arena or was it before that? I know I was having Physical Therapy for some time already and I was told that I needed to release the really tight tendon. That is all I had in mind.

Through the years, I have learned that it's important to get several opinions from doctors and surgeons regardless of what procedure that's going to be done. Some months ago I almost had a Thyroidectomy to the point that I already a room and date of procedure. I backed out after seeing 2 other surgeons who both agreed that I did not need to have one because the mass found was one, benign, and two still within a minimal size. All I really needed was a fine-needle aspiration biopsy to drain the liquid and oral medications. Beats going under the knife again.

After seeing three orthopedic surgeons, considering health insurance and costs, I decided to have it done once and for all. It was really my "agenda" beginning this year. Had it done now it's been 14 days since. Recuperating at home and still praying for patience and hoping that i don't bite heads off too soon. con't

FIRST SUNSET of the YEAR; 2012

2012-01-05T21:15:00.001+08:00

Solitaire Di Venezia with Marbles

2011-12-28T23:40:00.000+08:00

"Beautifully addictive solitaire game is the perfect solution to pass the time."

Now, if only it came with instructions. Haha.

Solitaire Di Venezia with Marbles provides hours of play in style!

The game of Solitaire is reputed to have been invented by a nobleman confined in the Bastille prison during the early years of the French Revolution. The game is played with 36 marbles. The object is to eliminate all but one marble, which should ideally end up in the center of the game board. The 38 handmade marbles contain up to 15 different semi-precious minerals—malachite, azurite, quartz, serpentine, hematite, bloodstone, lazulite, amethyst, crystal, garnet. via BrookStone

DO I NEED A REASON

2011-12-22T01:57:00.000+08:00

Today when I saw you I knew it was just like the first time When you met my eyes I came close And I felt like the first time To hold back my fear And feel you so near I’ve never been this far beforeTo hold back my fear And feel you so near I’m scared of falling into deep this time Do I need a reason to tell you whyI’m singing you this songDo I need a reason to show you thatI know where I belongWhenever I am weary I lean onThis feeling that I haveI am so much stronger nowThankful, yes I am Today I’ll renounce them, The doubts and the fears I’ve been nursingI’ll fly like a moth to the flameAnd I’ll feel like the first time To hold back my fearAnd let you come nearI’ve never been this far beforeTo hold back my fear And let you come near I’m afraid of losing and still I go

PWD XMAS PARTY 12.16.11

2011-12-19T18:40:00.001+08:00

It's been a while since I last attended a PWD (Persons With Disability) meeting. But since I was reinstalled as the President, I have no choice. Next year will be better.

2011-12-15T23:26:00.001+08:00

After my life literally changed 12 years ago, I noticed that the men that I attract are those who are "lost" or searching for something that will make them feel better about themselves. Because of my experience, I feel that they find "strength" and "courage" knowing that they know someone who has gone and surpassed these trials. They say I inspire. I am honored by what they all say. I truly am. But deep down inside, I feel that I just get USED. After they have "found" themselves, "regained" their confidence, they leave me and move on to someone else or go on with their present lives. Leaving me starting from scratch again.

I'm 35 years old. Single in all aspects. Sure, there are "guys" who have shown interest, a little "fling" here and there but never a "REAL" relationship. A real relationship in "accepted" terms. I am known to be "different" in my approach to these things. It has always been the case. Maybe that's why. I want NORMALCY in my life. Is that too much to ask for?

That's Just What You Are

2011-12-15T00:40:00.001+08:00

In our endeavor
We are never seeing eye to eye
No guts to surface
So forever may we wave goodbye
And you're always telling me
That it's my turn to move
When I wonder what could make the needle jump the groove
I won't fall for the oldest trick in the book
So don't sit there and think
You're off of the hook
By saying there is no use changing
Cause that's just what you are
That's just what you are
Acting steady
Always ready to defend your fears
What's the matter with the truth
Did I offend your ears
By suggesting that a change might be a thing to try
It would kill you just to try and be a nicer guy
Its not like you would lose
Some critical piece
If somehow you moved point A to point B
Maintaining there is no point changing
Cause that's just what you are
That's just what you are
Now I could talk to you till I'm blue in the face
But we'd still would arrive the very same place
With you running around
And me out of the race
So maybe you're right
Nobody can take
Something older then time
And hope you could make it better
That would be a mistake
So take it just so far
Cause that's just what you are
That's just what you are
That's just what you are
Acting steady
Always ready to defend your fears
(That's just what you are)
What's the matter with the truth
Did I offend your ears
(That's just what you are)
Sleepwalking man, it's a danger to wake you
(That's just what you are)
Even when it is apparent where your actions will take you
(That's just what you are)
And that's just what you are
And that's just what you are
That's just what you are

- Aimee Mann

ALL GOOD THINGS

2011-11-14T21:09:00.001+08:00

All good things. (All good things.) All good things. (All good things.) Not sure where to go, Everybody I know, Says I'm too forgiving. And now that I'm gone, I don't wanna move on, I just keep reliving. All good things. (All good things.) Oh I wish you, All good things. (All good things.) Come to an end. All good things. (All good things.) Oh I wish you well. Lost inside of my head, Empty side of the bed, I feel this place without you. I keep pushing the bruise, 'Cause I don't want to lose, What I love about you. All good things. (All good things.) Oh I wish you, All good things. (All good things.) Come to an end. All good things. (All good things.) Oh I wish you well... I could think of a million ways, You've proved you weren't the one. So live inside of your shades of gray, And nevermind the sunshine that I'll find. I got so much space now, I got a whole house, With the wind blowing through.I don't need somewhere to hide, I got this whole world inside, I was accustomed to showing you. All good things. (All good things.) Oh I wish you, All good things. (All good things.) Come to an end. All good things. (All good things.) Oh I wish you well... All good things. (All good things.) Ohhhh, ohh, ohhAll good things. (All good things.) Ohh, ohh, ohhAll good things. (All good things.) Oh I wish you well.

HOW I GET on the HORSE

2011-11-12T23:12:00.001+08:00

I have been asked HOW i get on the HORSE. Here's how. I need the ledge and sunny days.

2011-11-08T18:14:00.000+08:00

It has never been clearer. I like this system of check and balance. It puts a lot of perspective and puts me in my place.

BUTTERBEER LATTE

2011-11-06T19:06:00.002+08:00

https://pinterest.com/pin/184788390930127509/

JUST AS IT SHOULD BE

2011-10-27T21:56:00.004+08:00

Normally I would say that things were going on zoom mode but actually things are just as they should be. Which is good right?

Back On the Saddle Again

2011-09-17T15:01:00.006+08:00

It's been exactly one year and 9 months since I last got on a horse. Boy, did I miss it. I missed it so much, that I ended up being the laugh of the day. Tita Marivic started laughing with the grooms saying that I was on for more than an hour and was wondering why I wasn't complaining yet. It just felt so good. "In my element" as someone said. Here is one pic that a friend took. Thank you dear. Thanks for stopping by too.

IT's BEEN that LONG huh?

2011-08-25T23:03:00.003+08:00

I'm better now. I have finally gotten out of the rut. It took sometime, as usual. I was holding on to something that probably wasn't there in the first place. They all said he was NOT worth it. I should have listened. I should have listened to my gut feel which was ALWAYS right. I was just stubborn. Duro de cabeza. Thinking that NO ONE can be such an asshole or a bitch. Apparently, there are such people and a number of them yet. Yes, I was really hurt, he broke my heart, but more of disappointed. VERY DISAPPOINTED. People are NOT who they seem to be. Lost my faith in the system which I was so willing to help and promote in my own little way. Too bad for them.

Twitter makes it easier to classify people accordingly like the animal kingdom. After a while, you see who are real bitches and assholes. I met two wonderful people, yes on twitter, and actually met up with them. In doing so, that so-called cyber barricade that oh so many hide behind, was brought down to actual conversations over cups of coffee, lots of laughs and gastronomic food porn. Actual phone conversations and not just tweets or text messages.

Now, daily phone calls and lots of laughs. Just what I need.

32 Flavors

2011-07-24T20:36:00.000+08:00

PWD National Registration Week July 2011

2011-07-07T13:15:00.002+08:00

The KING of ANYTHING

2011-07-05T21:19:00.005+08:00

EDGE of the OCEAN

2011-05-10T10:50:00.004+08:00

at the edge of the ocean, I can start all over again.

INDIGO GIRLS: The State Theatre, Sydney 28 April 2011

2011-04-30T13:07:00.007+08:00

(will continue...)

Life Unexpected: World Spins Madly On

2011-04-14T14:43:00.006+08:00

Woke up and wished that I was dead
With an aching in my head
I lay motionless in bed
I thought of you and where you'd gone
and let the world spin madly on

Everything that I said I'd do
Like make the world brand new
And take the time for you
I just got lost and slept right through the dawn
And the world spins madly on

I let the day go by
I always say goodbye
I watch the stars from my window sill
The whole world is moving and I'm standing still

Woke up and wished that I was dead
With an aching in my head
I lay motionless in bed
The night is here and the day is gone
And the world spins madly on

I thought of you and where you'd gone
And the world spins madly on.

EXPOKID3 @ Rockwell Tent April 2, 2011

2011-04-14T11:16:00.003+08:00

WAITING

2011-03-31T14:21:00.002+08:00

THAT's ALL I NEED

2011-03-18T12:37:00.002+08:00

All I really need is REASSURANCE.

MISSA Football Tourament

2011-03-17T14:52:00.004+08:00

AFP ASCOM Field; 12 March 2011

IT HAPPENS ALL the TIME

2011-03-17T12:15:00.007+08:00

It happens all the time. After ballooning to an absurd weight (OBESE) due to medical circumstances, plus the real joy of eating, I tell myself that I'll start losing weight or cut down blah blah blah. For the past 10 years, it's been a roller coaster ride. The truth is, I know for a fact, that once I start losing weight, SOMEONE special comes into my life. I must admit after one heartbreak to another, I tell myself that, I'll just stay FAT, that way they'll stay clear and away from me.

Of course, for health reasons, it's always better to exercise and eat well. In 2010, I only had one goal. To start going to the gym and shed those unwanted pounds. I haven't drastically gone far but 30 lbs in a year, it's good enough considering the physical restrictions I have. I have made it a point, BP permitting, that I hit the gym at least 2x a week. It's not enough but it's better than nothing.

So here I am, 30 lbs less. Feeling physically good, except my ankle pains that come with being hemiplegic, and more pounds to shed, SLOWLY. YES this is all just PHYSICAL. But EVERYONE knows, I am NOT just about my physical appearance. I am a very passionate person which I'm starting to believe, is my downfall too.

When you are given a second chance in life, you take things as it comes, make the MOST out of it, don't WASTE time, and SHOW your appreciation and LOVE because everything just PASSES you by. In an instant, things change, unexpected natural circumstances happen, then that chance you're given is lost. Many will say that it's just my being impatient talking. Maybe it is maybe it isn't.

35! Happy Birthday Choo

2011-02-23T12:48:00.005+08:00

Another delightful lunch with the gang.

The Longest Week.... EVER

2011-01-31T11:17:00.005+08:00

I didn't think that I would be in this position again. It really creeps up on you when you least expect it. Once it's there, you relish in it's absolute state, taking everything in as it's presented. Hopefully, taking it one step at a time. Because you know of the challenges ahead, makes one think... I don't to think. I don't like the feeling of uncertainty. It's black or white, nothing in between. Yes or no. But then again, you have that "could be". Patience is indeed a virtue.

"Be patient. You don't control what goes on in his life. It's difficult at times to juggle so much stuff."

What's the Matter Here

2011-01-27T12:50:00.001+08:00

Must not live in fear.

THANK YOU for THIS JAMES

2011-01-05T23:17:00.007+08:00

MONTEMAR 2011; New Years

2011-01-03T14:43:00.004+08:00

Our second year in a row to spend New Years in Montemar. It was just as fun and crazy but I think my mind was miles away =) I never appreciated SMS more than ever before. My constant companion was Hanna. As always, Luis disappears with his cousins and by the time he returns, he is a shade or two darker. Hahaha. My poor baby. I didn't stuff myself crazy this trip in fact I hardly ate thinking of the year I spent slaving away in the gym.

The sunsets were beautiful and I don't know how many MMS I sent to share with J.

For entertainment there was a live band and overflowing booze that my cousins were passing around. My son had his first shot of vodka. Haha! Everyone was dancing, singing, and getting down. Bruno Mars was on loop! Hahahaa! Haha. There seemed to be more families this year. The rooms/bathrooms were renovated finally. Fun fun fun. Til next year...

CHRISTMAS 2010

2010-12-23T00:12:00.006+08:00

theGIRLS Christmas at Monica's place.

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TIWATIW Christmas at Nikki's
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DH MVA Momma's & Kids at Lykas
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ARANETA DEC 24th LUNCH

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del ROSARIOs XMAS LUNCH

CURTAIN UP 2

2010-12-06T11:31:00.003+08:00

SO PROUD of ALL of THEM!
Thank you Ms. Arlyn for the pictures.

Ayan yung SAGOT mo!

2010-12-03T12:48:00.001+08:00

Diabetes is not being directly associated with problems with sense of taste and smell but as a complication there is a chance. There are also cases where impairment in taste and smell have something to do with the medications used to treat diabetes.

Source(s):

http://nodiabetes.pinurl.com

SINGAPORE 2010

2010-11-21T17:07:00.006+08:00

Traveling has always been something that I look forward to. I mean who doesn't look forward to traveling? All I can say is that, I am amazed that my mom and I didn't get into each others nerves this time. We survived 5 days together. I guess practice makes perfect. I have found a system that works. Although I have to wake up earlier than usual, and my dear dear son was such a trooper. But what really saved us from screaming at each other was her KINDLE! Thank God for the Kindle.

I have grown to love Singapore especially because it's so green! Although there are still places that I would love to explore on my own. Maybe the "girls"can go on a trip. Next year?? Food was scrumptious. Couldn't get enough the Chicken Rice (5 lbs later) even having it for lunch at Universal Studios. We stayed at Marina Mandarin which was accessible to Marina Square (aka easy access shopping). I didn't shop at all except a Nike Sports bra for the gym. Yes... seriously. Why? Everything is soooo expensive. Most meals were at the Marina Food Court...

Spent an afternoon and dinner with cousins at the Nike store and dinner at DIN TAI FUNG. After Universal Studios we were a bit lazy to really go around. I had a wheelchair for Universal but the rest of the days were spent walking, and walking... achy feet... walking and walking. We really made use of the hotel room too by just lazing around munching on our food finds.

It was a good trip... next stop... the beach...

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BUGSLOCK Insect Repellent Band

2010-11-05T18:34:00.000+08:00

WATCHING MOVIES ALONE

2010-10-05T10:48:00.006+08:00

When I was younger, I wouldn't be dead caught watching a movie alone. It was taboo. It sort of connotes being a loser or an excuse for men to do their business in the theater. You know what I mean. I would be ashamed, shy, scared of watching a movie alone. Now... I enjoy it immensely simply because I watch movies for free. I only go to the "best" movie theaters where I feel comfortable, safe, and clean. I also make it a point that I catch the first screening of the film of my choice. I have made friends with the movie tellers too. It feels good actually. A moment of solitude.

Being a PWD (Persons With Disabilities) has many advantages. Aside from watching movies for free, I get medicines (doctor prescribed) and basic goods (groceries) at a 20% discount. It may not seem much but anything will help lessen the expenses. Unfortunately, the trusted drugstore, MERCURY DRUG, DOES NOT ACCEPT my PWD ID or booklet. Where is their tag line "The Spirit of Service Continues" apply then? The PWD ID is a National ID therefore should be accepted in all drugstores at all times. So I have to resort of buying medicines from Watsons or even generic brands.

MAGNA CARTA for PERSONS WITH DISABILITY

I always bring out my PWD ID whenever I am about to order food. Just to make it clear, the discount only applies on the food or item that you ordered. Let us not abuse this for what was given can always be taken away.

Back to the movies. For the past 2 or 3 years that I have been privileged to watch movies for free, I have never filled up my booklet. Not even a page. Therefore, I promised myself that I would watch at least 4 movies a month until my booklet expires. That is until July 2011.

Cheers

BRRUUNCCH! Not LUNCH!

2010-09-30T22:19:00.006+08:00

Getting together with my friends is something that I really look forward to and cherish. Aside from the great company, our kids get to spend time together too. Call time was11am. BUT no one comes on time as usual...Grr... At least this time, the Cuis & del Rosarios were just a bit tad late...still within the "call time". With churning tummies and food porn on site, there was nothing elseto do but dig in.

The theme of the BRRRUNCH! Not LUNCH was "Move Over Bobby Flay BBQ". There was SAUSAGES c/o of the Cuis & Cara (the lady of the house), BBQ c/o Mr. Marcelo (the man of the house), Lamb Chops, Grilled Corn c/o Mrs. Sadhwani, and my Spaghetti Royal (photo insert). There were two kinds of rich chocolate cakes c/o Llamas and Mrs. Cui (you can never go wrong with Chocolate Cake. Pastillas, Merengue, and Chips c/o the Bonifacios. Drinks were surprisingly tame... sodas and Minute Maid Pulpy Mango Orange c/o Mr. Sadhwani.

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OOH MORE GREEN CLEANING

2010-09-15T15:00:00.006+08:00

I have been spending a lot of time on Twitter these past weeks or even months. Many times I find myself tweeting about food and all natural cleaning products which can easily be found around the metro (for me that means around Makati and Taguig (Fort) area only). I have been following @chitjuan the owner of ECHOstore and they have this newline of HOME BASICS that got me excited.

"ECHOstore's Green Home, Clean Home campaign proudly introduces ECHOstore Home Basics, an eco-friendly homecare product line that cleans and greens your home.

These easy-to-use solutions are sure to make any household chore a breeze; and its natural antibacterial ingredients keep your family safe from harmful toxins.

The best part—each Home Basics purchase supports the ECHO Hope Fund and promotes environmental sustainability. You're not just cleaning your home, but greening the earth, too.

Fruit & Veggie Wash (250 ml) - P225

Antibacterial Surface Cleaner - P95 (50 ml), P199 (300 ml),

P450 (1 liter)

Eco-friendly Dishwashing Liquid - P250 (500 ml), P345 (1 liter)

Liquid Laundry Detergent (1 liter) - P300

Room Spray (250 ml) - P495

Linen Spray (250 ml) - P150

Available in Lemongrass, Basil Ginger, Lavender, and Orange Cinnamon scents."

Isn't that exciting?? What are you waiting for?

Visit EchoStore NOW!

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Fort Bonifacio Global City

Taguig, Philippines 1201

Store Hours: Monday to Sunday

10:00 am to 10:00 pm

ISurvived: PARALISADONG PANGARAP - August 5, 2010

2010-08-06T21:00:00.003+08:00

I Survived with Ces Drilon

2010-08-05T22:33:00.007+08:00

Shortly after giving birth, Bettina's doctors discovered she has a rare congenital brain disease. She underwent a sensitive operation where she lost " one cup of her brain" and lapsed into a coma. When she woke up again, she had to re-learn the alphabet. Just as her baby was starting to crawl, she had to learn to walk ...again. Given such realities and limitations, how did she manage to become a mom? Her inspiring story of survival and journey to healing tonight, August 5, on ' I Survived', after Bandila.

ISURVIVED

EDEN - by Bianca Araneta-Elizalde

2010-07-26T10:48:00.003+08:00

Dear mothers and moms-to-be,
Eden is my new line of maternity and nursing clothes that I will be launching this coming August. I designed each piece to grow with a woman's changing form throughout all stages of pregnancy including the 4th trimester, which includes transition and nursing. Because I'm such a staunch advocate of breastfeeding, all my clothes were made with discreet nursing openings to make breastfeeding your baby easily accessible, inconspicuous and stylish, which will hopefully encourage you all to breastfeed for longer. Please look out for our exciting first collection which will have a lot of pieces you will "live in" throughout this joyous time of your life! After all, I created this line out of love, plenty of hard work and research just for you and your little ones....I dedicate this line to all you mothers who all deserve to look and feel good about yourselves. Let's celebrate being a woman!
Love, Bianca

TEST of TRUE FRIENDSHIP

2010-07-21T11:04:00.011+08:00

Because of these incredibly low airfare prices c/o Cebu Pacific the girls usually have this "OK book it!" go go go impulsive booking spree months in advance. In the end it was only Janlo and I that made it. Margie was booked too but she had another trip booked too. Well, I wouldn't blame Margie... HK vs Melbourne? Go figure. Hahaha. Nonetheless, Janlo and I had a good time. Right Jan? It was an easy steady trip. No rushing. Just steady steady nice nice.

I think Janlo already realized the little perks of traveling with me in terms of cue lines in the airport, customs, boarding. We were always first. "Use me Jan, use me"... (out of my head GB) Hahaha! In this whole trip we only used a taxi once because my feet/legs were killing me and my brace was digging into my skin already. The taxi trip was only a block or two away that cost me $18HKD. When you are in pain, you'll pay any price. Plus with all that we bought from Central, Monkok, and around Tsim Sha Tsui we needed a ride.

We opted to take the 7:55am flight which was great because by the time we get to HK, we would have time to rest, eat and all geared up for the day ahead. I still can't believe how much I walked during the trip which is good right?

Our first meal was across the hotel steamed veggies, taro cakes, and pork with noodles.

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THE HUNGER GAMES TRILOGY

2010-06-26T17:30:00.005+08:00

I love it when my cousin recommends books to read. She got me into reading Twilight and of course the rest of the series. Now she recommended The Hunger Games. A must read. Reminds me of our duh government. So simple yet intricate details of how the future of what we know as North America could be. Not to mention the sappy love story too. Hehehe. A good read before going to bed.

FREE LOADER

2010-06-20T23:30:00.000+08:00

For as long as I remember, or at least for more than a year, there has been NO WEEKEND that Paolo the ass has his friend Mark sleep over the weekend. Weekend means Friday night til Monday noon. Yes. That is long. This has been going on for more than a year.

When my Pappy was alive, Mark was banned from sleeping over. Why? So what would that ass Paolo do? Make him sleep in the car. The 2 drivers then, would see this all the time. The thing is I am pretty sure that the ass would make up stories. There would be times when Mark would have to hide in the asses bathroom whenever my Pappy would knock on his forever locked door. (We do not lock doors in this house. Only the ass does). Then the ass would come down for mandatory dinner together and when my parents were up in their room. The ass would call the maids downstairs to prepare and set up food for Mark.

This went on for so long and as soon as I would open my mouth to tell my mom, she would start shouting at me. Anyone who knows me well enough knows that, I will answer you back, shout at you, and really make you bastos and I wouldn't care who you are. As long as I know that I am telling the truth, I will NEVER back down.

So now, my father is no longer with us. On the exact same day that my father died, Mark spent the weekend here. And it's been that way for more than a year. We do not have our privacy anymore. I can't walk down the hallway in my underwear. I have to make sure that all the doors are closed as Mark might be lingering in the hallway.

When the ass and Mark are here, the yayas and cook already prepare the biggest rice cooker we have because they finish half of it in one sitting. When I do the grocery, I buy the cheapest spaghetti noodles that I can find because that kilo will be consume in one sitting. The funny thing is, Darius, our "new" cook, does not know the quirks of how to serve these two gluttons. No way am I going to serve them the expensive pasta. So one night he used the cheap pasta and my mom gave him a scolding. My mom turns to me and asks why I buy this brand. I blatantly tell her that the ass and his friend finish a kilo per sitting. She just keeps quiet.

The thing is I think my mom just shuts her eyes and ears. Out of all the problems she has, I think this is the easiest to solve. KICK the ASSHOLE out of the house. She did it once. She should do it FOREVER.

CALAMBA

2010-05-20T01:24:00.004+08:00

Great weekend getaway! Thank you Tita Ixi and BJ! Luis and I had a blast!

Why I am voting for Gibo (and not for Gordon, Villar or Noynoy)

2010-05-05T21:56:00.003+08:00

Why I am voting for Gibo (and not for Gordon, Villar or Noynoy)

By Why I Choose Gibo

I am a 30-something entrepreneur based in Metro Manila. I have always been aware of/involved in current events — as a child, my parents brought me to EDSA I, in college I marched against the presence of the US Bases in the Philippines, as a young adult I was at EDSA Dos.

This election is really getting to me, and I’m no longer content with talking with my friends saying I hope Gibo wins. It’s not enough to sit there and say ‘sana’. I am writing this to explain my choice and hopefully to help others make theirs.

WHY GIBO?
He is the only one who has had a clear and detailed platform from the start. He does not promise the impossible with grand statements, he is specific and tenacious in getting his message across. He cites specific problems and solutions of the different areas he visits — he has clearly prepared for this.

He has an excellent scholastic and professional track record. He has not disparaged his fellow candidates. The respect he has shown them has made him the favorite of the other candidates, their wives and children.

http://www.philstar.com/Article.aspx?articleId=568107&publicationSubCategoryId=63

http://www.philippinenews.com/article.php?id=7338

http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/nation/03/11/10/rep-villar-gibo-if-husband-not-race

He will be able to reach out to the other parties when the elections are over — when work needs to get done.

He is intelligent and humble. He has inspired the youth. He is a statesman among politicians.

BUT HE’S IDENTIFIED WITH GMA
Please, almost all of them were identified with GMA at one time or another. Based on the number of defections from the Lakas camp and his current estrangement from his uncle Danding, Gibo is not anyone’s puppet. He is clearly his own man and his resolve to run his campaign in the matter he sees fit has ruffled many trapos feathers.

HE WON’T WIN AGAINST NA OR MV
Despite defections, Lakas is still the dominant party with representatives in the national and local level. No one can match their machinery in campaigning from the grassroots — evidence of this is slowly emerging. Very few, if any, of the other parties fielded full slates in the local level.

He has the most passionate, well spoken, informed and organized volunteers who actively campaign for him everyday. Such enthusiasm is inspiring and contagious — and it might just be enough to win over the undecided votes. The silent majority is tired of the empty promises and mudslinging. They want a president they can be proud of.

MY VOTE WILL BE WASTED — I HAVE TO VOTE FOR MV SO THAT NA WONT WIN (OR VICE VERSA)
This 2-candidate, good vs. evil battle is a media creation. Your vote is only wasted if your choice is based on fear, emotion and/or nostalgia rather than who you really think is qualified and deserving.

“Winnability” is a concept used by traditional politicians to appeal to the Filipinos’ need to always feel like they are part of the winning circle — hence the commissioned and questionable surveys. Many of us enjoy betting on the winner, as if watching a horse race, but really, what is the benefit of being on the winning team if you end up with a loser for a President?

Win or lose, I know that Gibo is the most deserving, prepared and qualified candidate. I am proud to cast my vote for him.

Meanwhile, there were only 3 other candidates worth thinking about:

ERAP – Just kidding.

GORDON – Yes, he has a good track record with Subic and the Red Cross. He is also a relatively successful Senator. However, I’ve had a couple of first hand experiences with him, corroborated by other people’s experiences, that showed me a few unfortunate traits. He loves the sound of his own voice too much, he talks down to people, is abrasive and doesn’t like to listen to others.

Maybe it’s from his Subic experience where everyone was a volunteer and willing to be dictated upon, but a good leader really needs to listen. A good leader should also know how to speak to people of different levels without alienating them. He needs to respect other opinions and accept that he is not an expert on everything all the time. Gordon has a “love him or hate him” personality, humility is not his strong suit and he is prone to outbursts. Basically, I think he’ll just piss a lot of people off. Sorry, but I want to actually like the person I’m voting for.

Oh and he wants to grant amnesty to the Abu Sayyaf. Um, no. http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20100216-253573/Gordon-Amnesty-for-Abu-Sayyaf-armed-groups

On the practical side, despite questioning the surveys, Gordon will really not win. In a country made up of over 7,000 islands, machinery wins elections — not advertisements, not televised debates. Simply put, Gordon doesn’t have the machinery needed to win the presidency.

VILLAR – I actually admire how from modest beginnings, he was able to build a real estate empire. He took this further by holding local and national elective positions until he made it all the way to Senate President. I don’t take his ambition against him — clearly, this man had a dream and the will to make it a reality — the Presidency is simply the next logical step in his path.

If not for the C5 issue and the super trapo-style campaign he’s running, he would be my second choice. Don’t even get me started on Willie Revillame…

Ok, ok, I have to say something about Willie — to me, he and that TV show he hosts epitomizes a lot of what’s wrong with this country. They prey on the underprivileged members of society, demean them with stupid games knowing that they will do almost anything because they need the money. The show encourages you to, rather than be productive, spend all day in a queue, pray that you get into the studio, pray again you get chosen for a game, get patronized and made fun of by the obnoxious host, and hopefully, ultimately win money — one time big time style. It is the total antithesis of Villar’s “Sipag and Tiyaga” motto — and yet Villar chose to be endorsed by Wille. As long as you are popular, even if your show killed 78 people (Ultra stampede — http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u501Emp6aXw) I want you on my team. Yikes.

NOYNOY – What has Noynoy done to deserve the presidency? (cue the sound of crickets)

I have more admiration for someone who has always aspired to be president and is obsessed with it, than for someone who had no plans of running, but because of a sudden surge in popularity, decides to run. Let’s face it, if Noynoy’s parents were not Ninoy and Cory, we wouldn’t even be talking about him.

Some argue that Cory was also inexperienced and had no plans of running for president either. True, but during that time, the people really only had 2 choices. That was then, this is now. Get over it. We have far better options today.

Watching Noynoy, I wondered why he always seemed to have a prepared statement to read. Could he not formulate his own answers? Wasn’t he a quick thinker? Then I saw a few interviews where he spoke off the cuff…here are a couple of gems:

On the surveys showing Villar was leading: “May survey na matino at may survey na nabibili sa Quiapo paminsan-minsan na may kasama pang champoy,”
http://www.philstar.com/Article.aspx?articleId=539987&publicationSubCategoryId=92

I bet he thought, oh I’m so witty! But by saying surveys can be bought, he cast doubt on the earlier surveys showing he was leading. So let me get this straight — surveys that show him leading are scientific and accurate, surveys that don’t are paid for and bogus? Ah, ok.

On not being able to pass a single authored bill (am paraphrasing): Marami daw kasing nagfa-file and refile. And if you check daw his performance, he was always present, “nagbabantay” and doing investigations. http://www.gmanews.tv/eleksyon2010/story/news/189213/kandidato-noynoy-aquino-takes-on-televisions-toughest-job-interview

A legislator’s main function is to make laws. Law maker po kayo, hindi security guard. Investigations are supposed to be in aid of legislation only. Always being present is not equal to good performance. That’s like saying you are a good student even if you sleep during class, as long as you are physically present. The sheer number of other bills being filed should not be a hindrance to your own bills. If your bills are good and if you have the tenacity, drive and resourcefulness, you should be able get them passed. E si Lito Lapid nga e…

Noynoy likes to talk about human rights and justice. To that I have two words: Hacienda Luisita

The Luisita Swindle http://www.bworldonline.com/main/content.php?id=9529

Really? Now that you’re running for President, you want to distribute the land? After so many years of sitting by watching them suffer, you suddenly want to give the land to the farmers? Maybe you should have discussed it with your cousin Fernando first because he told the New York Times a different story. http://www.nytimes.com/2010/03/15/world/asia/15phils.html

He is not specific enough with his program/platform. It’s just a slew of motherhood statements. Ok, so you hate GMA, and you won’t steal. And then what?

Yet, more and more he speaks like someone who is a sure win, like he is ENTITLED to the presidency. He was even irresponsible enough to say that failure of elections will result in people marching in the streets. If you are really the choice of the majority and have what it takes to become president, why the need to condition the minds of the people? You are supposedly a champion of democracy, so why encourage/threaten unrest? We do not need an administration whose only platform is vengeance.

Also, this good vs. evil thing that his campaign is spewing is really frustrating. Noynoy is good, everyone else is bad. Issues raised against him are black propaganda by paid hacks but issues he raises against others are valid and true. He can bring up his parents anytime, but if a rival mentions them, it’s disrespectful and sacrilegious. Puhleez… a quick check of who are behind his campaign will tell you that the line between good and evil is pretty blurred in that camp.

I actually feel sorry for him. I’m sure he knows he is not fit to be president. They talk about Gibo being a puppet of GMA, but really, it’s Noynoy that is the puppet of the power hungry elements who want to be back in the driver’s seat.

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CURTAIN UP!

2010-04-03T15:48:00.002+08:00

CAST of MARY POPPINS

PANATANG MAKABAGO

2010-03-09T11:39:00.002+08:00

Sorry BLOG...

2010-02-18T20:50:00.002+08:00

I have forgotten about you... Don't worry I still here...

THIS IS MY BLOG MY RULES

2010-01-28T21:24:00.008+08:00

For the past years, if you have been reading my blog, you will KNOW much I HATE my mother's son. I cannot live in the same house as he does. I can innumerate all the things he says and does but believe me, it would be longer than an epic or whatever you call those really long novels.

It is CLEAR that my mom favors him over me. That's ok as long as she knows what he really is like. The problem is, she is blinded by his foolishness, the way he deceives her, his constant lying, and his deranged way of thinking. It is a known fact that the arguments between my mother and I always stem out from what that asshole does. He is so annoying LOUD that our neighbors complain. The other day, outside my mom's window, I heard that ass talking to his friend or office mate or what our helpers say, our "boarder" and this were his exact words. "Pare, do I look like I have to work? I'm rich man, I dont have to work if I dont have to." Putang Ina! When I heard that, I wanted to get my dressage whips and whip him and kill him. I want my cousins to hear or read about this. It cannot come from me because AS ALWAYS, my mom thinks that I just make up stories about that ass to get him into trouble! Jesus Christ! I have my own life, but what am I suppose to do when you hear it first hand?? Even my yaya, who was up on the 3rd flood heard it. That is how LOUD he is.

We are are total of 12 people in this house. All 10 of us know exactly what that ass does. But of course, my mom does NOT believe a thing we say. If it comes from me, she has to verify it with the yayas and even the driver. They ALL have expressed their opinions and they all say this; "Kahit naman sinasabi namin kay maám, hindi naman siya naniniwala." or "Hindi na namin sinasabi kasi ibabaliktad lang niya yung istorya." These things frustrate me because no matter what, my mom does not believe ME or anyone else.

Like I have said over and over again, that ASS has got my mom wrapped around his ass scratching finger. It's like we can never win. I can never win. Am I suppose to just let it go? The things that ass does in front of my son is a BIG NO.

Imagine this: Dinner time. Food is budgeted because of expenses: We are served whereas the yayas go around with a tray and serve us. HOW MANY TIMES HAVE I SEEN THIS?! There are 2 or 3 pieces of chicken fingers or something left plus Luis' baon for the following day. So politely asking everyone in the table, "Can I have the last piece?" Luis' asks. Guess what?!! The ass gives Luis piercing looks saying "Don't you dare touch that!" Leaving the 3 yayas serving in stitches as they go back to the kitchen. Because they hate the ass to, they give everything to Luis or for Luis' baon. A 28 or 29 year old in a fat body of a 4 year old. Really, his mental age is 4. My God, my 10 year old son is more mature than that ass.

My mom constantly complains about the expenses here at home. So in whatever way I can, I do my part. Why can't she tell that ass to do the same? Our food (mostly meats) revolves around what he likes. The REFs and FREEZERS are always broken, so of course the cook will tell my mom. Then my mom gets mad at them asking why they break. The maids just shut up because they know that if they say it's because of the way that ass slams the doors (ref, freezer, car) my mom will not believe them. Again, IT CANNOT COME FROM ME!!! The ass has this deranged conclusion that if you leave the freezer door opened of the small ref it will leave the ref colder. What the FUCK?? I'm telling you, that ass is sick in the mind! Hello??????!!! The higher the electricity bill will be right? If you keep slamming the freezer door of course it will break eventually.

That ass was clinically diagnosed with ADHD. Did my parents do anything about it?? No. My mom probably thought it will pass! HELLO MOM!!! He is a sick ass! Sick in the head. He needs psychiatric help. There are papers and studies that I can pull out to prove it. Hmm, maybe I should shove it in that ass' face once and for all.

He jacks off in front of the computer even though there are maids/yayas going up and down to the 3rd floor. Because of the porn he watches that other computer is brimming to the rim of viruses and then since my mom and that ass share the same computer, of course the comp is always broken. Then get this, he blames my computer. I swear I want him DEAD! It's a good thing my mom didn't fall for that. My computer is only connected via WiFi. That ass blames my computer of why my mom's doesn't work. My mom was about to buy a NEW Router because there was no internet access. Punyeta! It's a good thing I was in the car with my mom when that ass told her about it. Puta, I have been using the internet and it was only 1 or 2 days that I didnt have connection. When I figured it out, viola, my WiFi worked. My computer's WiFi, my iTouch, Luis' laptop had connection so what fuck is that ass saying that it's my computer that is breaking my mom's?? He doesn't know his ass from anything!

SEE WHAT I HAVE TO LIVE WITH??

Last Monday, I really told my mom off. Though it was really bastos and disrespectful, I had to say it to her face. She stormed out of the dinning room in tears and I, surprisingly enough, was uber calm. No shouting, no crying even. Not even tears of frustration. It felt good. I'm not sorry for what I told her. Because she has to know the truth. She has to face it. Even after tonight's "talk", she still wont say it out loud that all that I was throwing at her are ALL TRUE! I asked her to say that what I told her was true, she refuses. Thus, whatever I threw at her were ALL TRUE. Why cant see say it out loud?? I wanted so much for that ass to hear everything. Yes, I am proud. Yes my pride is high. It has to be or else. I know where to place myself. I know how to blend in or fit in. I respect people. Just don't get me pissed off. Don't worry, I don't think there is anyone worse that the asshole that lives here.

Monday night and tonight, it was poor Luis who ends up crying. Guess what Luis said that brought me to tears. "I miss Pappy. I wish he was here. Pappy would have listened and believed you." I hugged Luis so tight and I said "Yes! I wish Pappy was here too. What can we do Luis? Mom never listens to me. That's why I want to live somewhere else, but I cant afford it. Let's just help each other."

...MONTEMAR...

2010-01-05T16:27:00.002+08:00

It's been a long time since I have truly enjoyed the holidays. Despite the sad losses in the family within a 13th month period, my father included, positivity was in the air for the coming New Year.

will continue soon...

DECEMBER MAYHEM

2009-12-28T13:03:00.002+08:00

The title says it all.

December 19: Tito Joe's Birthday where we had a Potluck Party for him. We had mass and we even had carolers that the priest brought in. Tita Lou made this arrangement as she has seen them perform at the US Embassy. Apparently, these children are from Smokey Mountain and are well traveled performing our classic dances and more. When the children sang Happy Birthday, Tito Joe was in tears. Aww.

December 23: Ah... this is where the mayhem starts... Julian's 6th birthday party. The plan was that Cara would pick up everyone (the kids) in the "Julian's Birthday Bus" where all the kids would pile up in the van that had tents, tons of pillows, sleeping bags, and toys. A fun ride indeed. Call time was 1:30 in my house but it was past 2pm and yet no sign of the Birthday Bus. The driver took a wrong turn where they ended up near Alabang already. Hahaha. The Cuis and Luis were picked up in my house. The coast was clear so I left and picked up Margie. I couldn't have ridden in the bus because I need a proper seat so I took my own van. I get a call from Cara soon after, the van stalled. Oh dear. Then I get another call again saying that the van got fixed and they were heading to pick up Jennie's kids in Valle Verde. Margie and I made our way through EDSA taking our time. Guess what?! The van stalls again right in front of Jennie's house and her parents were standing right outside the door. Bwuahahahaha!! I can already picture the scene of the crime. The van was dead. They all had to take a cab and car to pick up the Bonifacios in La Vista and the Techono Hub on Commonwealth. I could feel Cara's frustration, I could. Margie and I had dimsum while waiting. Seeing Cara jump out of the cab waving her arms up in the air saying "WE MADE IT!" was a hilarious sight indeed.

click here for MORE Pictures!

December 24: Mix Emotions. Our beloved Tito Tony Climent passed away before noon. The 24th is also Tita Chiquita's birthday and when are Aranetas get together for Christmas lunch.

con't.

Sorry Had to Post This...Way to Cute.

2009-12-15T12:49:00.001+08:00

LOVING my iPod Even More

2009-12-03T01:07:00.002+08:00

1. myTunes - still building it up again (dang)
2. myTV shows on the GO.
3. myMovies
4. Gmail
5. Business (Multiply)
6. Social Networks (FB, Twitter, YM)
7. Safari
8. Grocery & Other Lists
9. All Those Additcting Applications
10. Photos
11. Games - for Luis & I, sometimes mom too.

So so happy I got one... now a name for it.

ALL I BELIEVE IN

2009-11-28T15:11:00.002+08:00

HONG KONG & SINGAPORE

2009-11-26T11:04:00.012+08:00

It seems that this year has been a year of traveling both local and international. Twice to Baguio, Bacolod, Hong Kong, Singapore, and in December, Bataan. Fun but tiring (for my feet).

Hong Kong was one for the books. RDA Hong Kong sponsored our trip and accommodations and oooh lala meals. But having to walk from the room to where to eat, lectures and demonstrations, bullring, conference rooms took a serious toll on my feet. Up to now, it's still hurts. Met delegates from all over the world and riders that were truly amazing. Truly inspiring. We stayed at the Beas River Country Club which was all the way in the bundok, it's suppose to be a posh posh hush hush country club. Tell the taxi to take you to the Hong Kong Jockey Club he will know that better than Beas River.

Singapore. Mom took Luis and I to Singapore on a 5 day trip. But it was clear that the trip was for Luis. We spent the whole day in Sentosa, half the day in the Science Center, and the Singapore Zoo and Night Safari. We also met up with Ramon and Debbie and adorable Rocco. Food was good too but after how we were fed in Beas River, hmm so far what I have eaten hasn't come to par. Love Singapore because of how clean it was. It was pure greenery.

The Vampire Diaries - My Weekly Dose of Edward

2009-11-08T01:30:00.003+08:00

Just from picking up a thread on Facebook about a new TV series , here I am waiting and downloading patiently this new series called The Vampire Diaries. The sad thing is that I have all 8 episodes in my iPod for viewing pleasure on the go! Hahaha. Cheap thrills I know. I find Bad Vamp Damon hot. It's like watching Twilight on a weekly basis. Yum. Hahaha. At least the female lead is prettier than Bella. Hehehe.
Speaking of Twilight how many more days before the premier? Have to get my Twilight Girls Cousins to go and watch with me. You know who you are. =) I'm like a teenager all giddy and excited!

AMAZING ANA

2009-11-05T09:42:00.003+08:00

After having spent 4 days with inspiring para riders, I get an email from T. Marivic about one of her riding students. Please watch the video.
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Amazing don't you think??

BACOLOD 09

2009-10-21T21:44:00.007+08:00

Another out of town trip with the girls. This trip was planned and booked last March during the summer months one afternoon in Polo. Low an behold the day actually comes. October 15 to 18, 2009. Bacolod the City of Smiles. Unfortunately, not all the GIRLS were able to go due to prior commitments. But as always, Cara, Janlo, Monica, and I are kaladkarin.

for more pictures CLICK HERE

FINALLY!

2009-09-24T10:19:00.000+08:00

Because I have been so busy, I forgot about all my shows. Luckily I was able to get almost all in one day. Yipee! Still have to look for the rest of my shows. Guess what?! I got the flu so perfect time to curl up in bed and watch. Marathon-ly watch! hahahaha.

LITTLE STEPS

2009-09-15T23:12:00.011+08:00

Inspired by INDIGO Baby's entry of WAYS to be GREEN. I realized that I have been taking these steps in whatever way I can. I must admit that it's darn hard to convince my family to make that switch. But I will still do MY part for the least. For the past two years, I have been an authorized reseller of Indigo Baby. I believe in their parenting and eco-friendly values that go hand in hand that will later transcend to our children and hopefully to our children's children for the benefit of Mother Earth. I have become pretty passionate about this and as I have said before have chosen to be conscious about the products I use.

I have always believed that natural and organic is the best way to go. For a time, it was hard to find these all natural products that were readily available. I mean, I don't think groceries or major supermarkets carry them yet. However, because of this GO GREEN bandwagon, there have been many local small businesses and manufacturers that have taken those steps and producing excellent products and services.

Daily Rituals. We all take a bath at least once a day right? Please say you do =). Your choice of Shampoo, Conditioner, Soap, Feminine Wash, Deodorant, Shaving Cream, Toothpaste, Mouth Wash, Toner, Make up, and the daily list goes on and on, gets washed down into our water systems. We all know that ALL will lead to the ocean whether you like it or not. So why not use environmentally safe and sustainable products in our daily life? Can you just imagine the impact that it will make to our ONE and ONLY Mother Earth?? It's really simple actually. It's just about making that conscious effort. Don't you think?

Laundry. I live with my mom (my father just passed away after a long battle with stage four lung & renal cancer), and my 10 year old son. My dad has a younger brother who has been a vegetable for almost 32 years due to a car accident. He lives with us now. Then, there is this guy who lives here too but he is totally useless in all aspects. We have 4 household helpers, 3 midwives that take round the clock shifts, and a driver that stays in. That makes it a total of 12 of people. Can you just imagine the water bill? Out of those 12, I bet only 2 or 3 really make a conscious effort and I know I am one of them. I buy Plantex Green Detergent and Fabric Softener and sometimes I buy Victoria detergent and laundry bars. I super love the smell of Plantex. It's only P155/kilo for detergent and P125 for the fabric softener. Victoria's detergent is only P125 per kilo. But this is only used for my clothes, my son's clothes, out towels (hand and bath), bathroom rugs. Why?? Because I am the only one who makes that conscious effort. I will go out of my way to buy these rather than just grabbing the more convenient TIDE or SURF or ARIEL. I tried making my mom SWITCH the detergent that everyone uses but NOOOOOOOOOOO, the yayas have to list down TIDE in the grocery list. She just grabs the list and goes. BUT, I have made it a STRICT and CLEAR RULE to the labandera to use ONLY eco-friendly products for us. And she knows that she can't fool me. I know the smell too well. A reason why too I'm itching to have my own place.

All Purpose Cleaner. I found Plantex Green All Purpose Cleaner and the ratio is 1:20. Hmm, does it or will it really get clean?? Just to make sure make it 1:10 when mixing the all purpose cleaner. It works on EVERYTHING! But, here goes my problem again, the yayas still use AJAX or DOMEX. I have literally put their faces and noses on the ingredients of these nasty health threatening junk and have repeatedly told them to STOP buying them. Still my mom buys because it's listed. ARGH!!! I even bought 5 or 6 bottles of the Plantex Green for each bathroom of the house. Guess what, there are hardly used. Well, at least my bathroom is certified green. The yaya who cleans my bathroom knows that I will have a fit if I catch her using AJAX or DOMEX. She knows I know the smell. Plantex Green All Purpose Cleaner is P105/1liter to be used 1:10 ratio. P10.50 pesos. That's CHEAP!

Even Jive my horse uses eco-friendly products. I use Victoria Bar for her baths. I make a water vinegar earth friendly dish washing liquid for her fly spray too.

Kitchen. I have tried. I buy Thifty which is an eco friendly dish washing soap. Guess what? I find an unopened bottle under the kitchen sink and I see the AXION or JOY on the sink of both the main kitchen and the dirty kitchen. WTF?!!! I'm dying to hear their explanation. I was about to buy another bottle today but I remembered that there was still an unopened one. See why I need my own place??

Electricity. Unplug. Unplug. Unplug. At least my mom's yaya unplugs my mom's hair dyer and small electric fan daily. I unplug everything except my wireless phone and tv. The rest I make sure that there is nothing attached to the electrical sockets. I know for a fact that the pest that lives here doesn't give a damn about anything. He leaves the computer on 24 hours even though he is not even home to the point that I have to irritatingly remind my mom to tell him off. His fan and tv and cellphones are all on even though there is no one there. This is the kicker, he freaking leaves the freezer of the small refrigerator door opened because he dementedly thinks that the drinks will get colder. He is mentally ill. For the past two days, the ref door has been left slightly opened. I have to close it properly. I feel like putting electrical tape around it already! My mom just threatens him if he doesn't shape up but to him it doesn't matter. A little carino he thinks will make my mom forget or at least let his foolish ways pass. Hahaha. NOT when I'm around. Hey, he doesn't pay for electricity. Mahiya hiya naman siya.

Well, that's all I can think of as of now. Gosh, it's 12:59am already. In all of this, it is really a CONSCIOUS EFFORT for SAVE our ONE and ONLY Home. Earth. Do you part in saving the earth, we only have one.

2009-09-15T11:28:00.001+08:00

BWUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

Nice

2009-09-05T21:19:00.001+08:00

BAGUIO

2009-09-05T01:25:00.001+08:00

GREEN FRUSTRATIONS

2009-08-10T10:47:00.012+08:00

Over and over again, I have told our household staff that there are many harmful chemicals in cleaning products. Just recently, I was able to convince my mother to switch our laundry detergent to Plantex Green or Victoria. She was happy to comply but the last time I accompanied her, actually to make sure she doesn't grab the usually TIDE and DOMEX and AJAX just because it was easier, she got a 2.5 kilos of Tide only because it was cheaper than Plantex Green by a few pesos. I couldn't argue with her simply because she was paying. It's a good thing that it was only 1 pack that she bought. I gave strict instructions to the labadera and yaya to only use Plantex for our(Luis & I) clothes and bath towels, bedsheets, etc. They can use whatever they want for themselves but as long as there is eco friendly cleaning materials, use it right? I have told my mom that I will even go out of my way to buy environmentally friendly cleaning products just for the sake of our planet. What's a few minutes and detour? Time that I have too.

Because these helpers have their "nakasanayan" cleaning rituals, it really hard to make them understand that CHEMICALS are bad. A few months ago, my beagle died. Poison was the cause of death. Some helpers say it was the driver because the dog bit him and the driver poisoned him, others say that it was the previous labandera who would get a high from I do not know what. Now, that I think about it, it was probably the Clorox bleach that they were using to mop the floors. I mean, who knows right?? Since Hunter was in the dirty kitchen most of the time, he probably was inhaling all that Clorox while the helpers were trying to make the kitchens spotlessly clean. I confiscated the GALLON size of Clorox because for the nth time, my house shirt was stained with Clorox. I had to tell them that it was a good thing that it was a house shirt and not a going out shirt which many know, I do not have much of. I was fuming!! Don't even get my started with Luis's school shirts. School shirts that have not yet been pain for. What is their reply? "Sorry" Sorry does not fix the stained clothes, sorry does not buy a new shirt. "Kasi natapon ...." The only concrete thing to do is confiscate it. If I had my way, Ill throw it away. I told my mom to STOP buying bleach even if it is listed in the grocery list. I have my eyes keen too because these helpers think that they can outsmart you by buying small packets of Zonrox or even Muriatic ACID! They must hate me now because I'm changing all their "nakasanayan" products. I gallon sized Zonrox is in my room hidden in a waste basket which I have to change from time to time. I emptied all their small containers too.

This morning when I woke up, the yaya who cleans my bathroom was taking longer than usual to answer me who was cleaning my bathroom. Why??? She was using AJAX cleanser to scrub my bathroom tiles when she knows very well, that I have Plantex Green All Purpose Cleaner under my sink cabinet! FURIOUS!!!! I said, "Kung hindi kaya ng solution na tinimpla ko, gamitin mo yung puro." (If the cleaning solution that I made does not clean enough, then use the solution pure." You know, my allergies started to react. I was itching and this sensation was starting to creep up my legs. ARGH!!!! I swear, if only I was not disabled, I would really really would rather have no helpers. Ang titigas ng ulo. (Hard headed) Hay, like what they say and I'm sure I have said this so many times, You can't live with them, you can't live without them. I label their cleaning products and what they are for. Then I notice that the bottles are being used. Why? Sira... or ubos na. Hay!!!!! Then ask for more. Or tell when they are broken so I can replace them. I better end this before my blood pressure hits the roof again.

Need to find: Environmentally safe "bleach"

All Purpose All Around Cleaner and Detergent (P130 and P125/1 kilo)

SUNDAY SURFING...the net

2009-08-09T13:02:00.004+08:00

After completing my ORDERS, I usually check the websites that I am subscribed too. Mostly digital scrapbook stuff, cooking, baking, HGTV, Etsy and so much more. One of the sites I frequent is Living Locurto where there are so many yummy free downloads and new links to check. Today, this is what I found. So cute... Now, if only I had my own place to use this for =)

To make one of your own, you'll need...

felt
embroidery thread and needle
3" x 5" recipe card
magnets
glue
scissors
and Future Girl's pattern, which you can find here.

http://www.curbly.com/DIY-Maven/posts/7011-how-to-make-a-clean-dirty-dishwasher-sign#newest_comment

HONOR GUARDS

2009-08-06T18:10:00.011+08:00

Standing for more than 8 hours under the rain, sun, things being thrown at you, on a moving truck, not moving, is commendable indeed. I'm glad that ANC's Top Story was able to interview 3 of the 4 honor guards this evening. Given the fact that they were given the honor to guard President Cory's remains until her final resting place, these men endured all this without a budge. Here are their names. Antonio CADIENTE, Gener LAGUINDAM, Edgardo RODRIGUEZ, Danilo MAALA.

Their funny stories about their trip makes one realize how that when really want and need to do something, it can be done. One was dying to pee, the other make sure he went to the bathroom before boarding the truck, and one was wondering how he was going to get off the truck after his legs have stiffened up. Hahahaha... Funny! Pinoy talaga every thing just becomes a joke. =)

Picture by Jojo Gloria

Picture by ME

ANOTHER BABY in the GANG

2009-07-26T22:00:00.000+08:00

Welcoming Santiago Roman Salangsang Marcelo. "Sancho" to the world. As we braved the non-stop rain and floods knowing that at the end of the tunnel would be sumptuous a meal, all worthwhile. Cabin fever hits but it didn't matter. click here to see more pictures

TIME DOES FLY

2009-07-08T17:03:00.003+08:00

So much has been happening that I don't have time to really sit down and blog about anything. I do have time to post pictures. But even that is so limited. I have to back track and see what I have been doing these past months.

I stayed up til 4:30am watching the live telecast of Michael Jackson's Memorial service. I couldn't help but cry when Paris said those simple words. I'm sure everyone else did. It reminded me of my own Pappy's internment mass where I had to say a few words afte. We all know that Michael's legacy will live on forever. At least once in my life, I was able to watch a Michael Jackson Concert. It was 10 years ago or more even. MJ Rest In Peace. Heal the World.

A DECADE

2009-07-06T12:24:00.000+08:00

Gosh, I can't believe my baby is 10 years old. How time flies. It is also my 10th year since my brain surgery. Yup. Imagine given 10 days to live to 10 years and counting. Someone sent me a video of Nick Vujicic a long time ago and I was inspired even more to go and live. How timely that I get sent the same video on my 10th year anniversary (July 6-7) since that frightful night where I was only given days to live. I would like to take this opportunity to thank each and every one of you who have believed in me and helped me in this journey to recovery especially my Mommy and Pappy, who never gave up on me despite all. Who have done nothing but give me the love and shower me with blessings. The family (the whole herd) who have been all so supportive and loving. My dear friends who still know me as the LOGS that I am. Tita Marivic, who knew that I could get on a horse again and do a lot more. My PT/OT family who have done countless favors for me and making me feel more than just a patient. Titas and Titos. Jive my 20+ year old horse who literally takes care of me every time I ride. Of course, the love and joy in my life, Luis Xavier. I can never thank each and every one of you enough. Take care all. Much love, Bettina

NEW MOON!

2009-06-03T11:21:00.001+08:00

WTFA!!!

2009-05-22T11:30:00.003+08:00

The other day Tita MC told me that I shouldn't write what the ass does. Apparently, she reads my blog. I'm sorry Tita but I have to vent out or else another vain in my brain will pop again. My last entry about this was February 23, 2009. I said that I was wondering when the ass will finally get kicked out for all the lying and crap that we have to live with? Well it happened last Monday but puneta it only lasted for 4 freaking days! Now the ass is back here. Fuck! I'm going to get so hot tempered and hell is going to break loose again. See, that's the problem with my mom. She gives in so easily and that ass knows that he has my mom wrapped around his fat finger. His fat finger that is literally inside his short/pants scratching his ass all the time! The helpers have a funny skit they do of him scratching his ass. He is the laughing stock of the household. The cook is going on vacation next week and dear God I hope she still comes back knowing that the ass is back here. Mamomoblema nanaman of what food to cook. Mounds of rice again and cans of processed food. Shit, now I feel bad that I did the grocery knowing that it's just all going to go to that ass.

The past few days that the ass was not here, we had pleasant dinners, no food went to waste, no extra cooking, it was bliss. No porn windows popping out while I work, no loud computer games, (I should really tell the neighbors to file a report already. Baka they are just dyahe. They already did once of twice. They should do it again.) no electric fans left opened, no bashing of ice in the middle of the night, and the list goes on. I wonder how much water we saved since the ass was not here? Tons I bet, no bidet left on while he takes a crap. See, no one believes me when I say these things. Well, they better, because I'm not going to stop until that ass REALLY gets kicked out of the house. Please NOT 4 days. Make it an eternity.

Before my father passed away, he sent this text message to my mom saying that I had finally visited him and forgiven him and that now he will work on the ass. Well, maybe my Pappy knew it was a hopeless case and died anyway. Of course he knew it was a hopeless case.

Does this mean that I have to start looking for places to stay?

BABYLEGS - What would you do for Love?

2009-05-16T13:12:00.006+08:00

"BabyLegs LLC has grown from one mom’s diaper bag essential to an essential product for all. They began as a solution to keep little legs warm, and now the uses are endless! Nicole Donnelly, then a stay-at-home mom, created BabyLegs to keep her dear daughter, Sara’s, little legs warm, while she was diaper free to allow bad rashes to heal. This impromptu invention not only allowed Sara’s rash to heal, but also protected her from many elements, made diaper changes quick and easy, kept her knees protected while crawling, and provided sun protection. Beyond all of these benefits, the leg warmers were also very fashionable. After numerous inquiries from other moms about where Donnelly found the little leg warmers, she began selling her invention out of a diaper bag, and the popularity of BabyLegs spread quickly throughout the community. BabyLegs can now be found in over 50 countries from Israel to Chile to Iceland. That is our rash to riches story – we hope you enjoy our sweet BabyLegs. - Sara & Nicole"

I really wish I had gotten into this sooner. I didn't see the need since we live in a tropical country. But BabyLegs are lightweight and surprisingly cool. Thanks to Indigo Baby, I was able to get hold of some. Also my clients have been ordering too. Below are the versatile BabyLegs Luis has and uses. We take them when we watch a movie but more so in school. Because Luis is almost 10 years old, I couldn't get those adorable and cute colors for him. Hehehe.

Believe me there are tons of colors and designs to choose from. Better yet check out my website and see how you can avail of these musy haves. - click here . Enjoy!

Ciao!

...I Miss This Spot...

2009-05-14T11:50:00.006+08:00

I miss this spot. I miss blogging about my days whether good or bad. Just haven't had the time. Been so busy with orders and now a new venture. It's good in the sense that I am busy right. Making a little profit to get by.

It's summer for Luis and he has taken up digital photography and started Spanish lessons. Of course he still has his tennis twice a week. Keeps us all busy having to work around driver schedules, play groups and the works. There hasn't been much of a MVA playgroup which as dissipated over the months. I still get to see one or two MVA Mommas as one has even started to half stable Jive.
Speaking of Jive, there has been a slight change in grooming services. Nanding is no longer my groom but he has said that he will still help me get on leaving the rest to my new groom Odong. Imagine after more than 10 years. I have to get used to it I guess. Jive has been a real sweetheart to the kids and students of T. Marivic, I see in their faces the content and after they have ridden that they had a good ride. That's my baby. Just going about her business but she demands her carrots! Wow, her eyes light up and at full alert when she knows she is getting her carrots.

I'm happy that the vitamins that we are giving her is working. Jive has gained weight. have to build up her muscles though. Need a good rider to do that through. Lex? Hehehe. Luis kisses and hugs Jive when he sees her. My sweety.

Don't ask me about going out or my social life because I don't go out. Mostly all family gatherings composed of dinners and lunches. That's why I'm so fat! Hahaha. Anyway, gotta get back to work. Adios!

2009-05-14T11:34:00.000+08:00

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GOING NATURAL

2009-04-23T11:33:00.018+08:00

A long long time ago, my mom had this book about recycling. It was a nice picture book and interesting indeed. Something like 50 Ways to Safe the Earth. This was 20 years ago. I have always appreciated nature and animals, except cats, in general and always wanted to care for the earth. Life in general gets too busy that we ignore the "world" around us. It's only the recent years that this explosion of recycling, all natural, organic and have started doing little things to help save the earth. has become a "trend" so to speak. Like most know, that my life changed 10 years ago, I have become more aware of the environmental issues we face today because I have a 10 year old son who will inherit this earth and the future generations to come. I figured that the best way to start is always with yourself and later extend to those around you and so forth. Although, I'm not going to be a hypocrite and start being a vegetarian and live on tofu alone. I still want my guilty pleasures and be happy. I still want my Quarter Pounder with Cheese and the like. I still want my Adobo, Kare-kare, Crispy Pata, ect once in a while. =). Live a little as many would say.

A little more than a year ago, I have made the switch in going natural in my every day grooming and cleaning. It has taken some time but I have found the products that suit my skin type and knowing that it's not harmful to the environment, it makes me feel good that I am helping in whatever way I can.

Bath & Body

Household Cleaning & Laundry

and everyone's favorite.... SHOPPING

Please recycle. Let us do our part in saving the earth, we only have one.

SUMMER is HERE

2009-04-07T22:27:00.002+08:00

I have been so busy with my Multiply site that I have ignored this one. Boohoo!

LET'S DO OUR PART in SAVING OUR EARTH.

2009-03-19T12:16:00.000+08:00

EARTH HOUR!

Start:	Mar 28, '09 8:30p
End:	Mar 28, '09 9:30p
Location:	Manila, Philippines

The lights will go off for one hour on March 28 at 8:30 pm in key cities in the Philippines and all over the world. It's called Earth Hour.

This lights-out initiative, which began in Sydney in 2007 as a one-city environmental campaign, has evolved into a grassroots action that has attracted worldwide attention. In 2008, 371 cities across 35 countries turned their lights out in a united call for action on climate change and energy conservation. Global landmarks – such as the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco, Rome's Colosseum, and the Coca Cola billboard in Times Square – all stood in darkness, symbols of hope for a cause that grows more urgent by the hour.

Earth Hour 2009 aims to reach one billion people in 1,000 cities all over the world. To help reach this goal, a global sign-up campaign and competition is again being launched worldwide. Last year, the Philippines ranked 9th in terms of total sign-ups. All Filipinos are urged to sign up at Earth Hour's global website: http://www.earthhour.org. Earth Hour Philippines 2009 hopes to involve 10 million Filipinos and 500 businesses in key cities across the country.
Earth Hour 2009 is a global call to action to every individual, every business, and every community. It is a call to stand up, to take responsibility, and to get actively involved in working towards a sustainable future. People across the world will turn off their lights and join together in creating a vital conversation about the future of our precious planet.

The World Wide Fund for Nature (WWF), the Green Army Philippines Network, and the SWITCHmovement have joined hands with the Department of Energy to spread public awareness of the Earth Hour message to cities and communities all over the country.

To receive news updates and event schedules, one can register one's cellphone number by sending the following message to 5777 for both Smart and Globe users: green reg firstname middleinitial lastname. Example: green reg Juan/C/De la Cruz.

"2009 is a destiny year for the entire planet," declared Lory Tan, President and CEO of WWF-Philippines."This is the year that we decide the future of humanity. Earth Hour is a message of hope and action and we hope it sends a powerful message to both local and world leaders. It is a global movement that proves that each one of us can make a difference. Imagine what we can do if we act together."

Recognizing the vital role of the energy community—particularly in terms of sustainable electric power generation, clean transport fuels, and best energy practices across sectors—DOE Secretary Angelo T. Reyes expressed full support for Earth Hour. "This grassroots initiative is an opportunity for individuals from all corners of the globe to unite and, in a single voice, highlight the urgent need for dramatic lifestyle changes and best energy practices to save our planet. This is a cause that should unite us as Filipinos and as citizens of the world."

The first step is just turning off a light.

Please pass....

...Ho-hum..

2009-03-17T14:22:00.005+08:00

As seen from recent posts, it's mostly about business. For obvious reasons, I need moolah to sustain needs and caprichos. Aside from that, helping out fellow Stay-at-Home-Yummy-Mummies. Plus I genuinely believe in all the products since I have tried and tested them. =)

In the not so personal aspect of my life and that of my dear son's, nothing much has really been happening. It's the usual schedule that we keep. Because of the financial turmoil that we are all in, I try to limit my spending and going out, meaning grocery shopping on a need-only basis with a few cheap stuff thrown in. Although needed, but not entirely will-not-survive-without-it, is my PT or physiotherapy. Makati Med Rehab has raised thier prices and I find it too steep. In other words, I haven't been going. I didn't go today. I would rather have a hour and a half masahe actually. Which reminds me that I have to call the gym and Barangay Clinic regarding thier schedule. If I can get it for free why not right??

Which leads me to my present dilema. The person half-stabling Jive has written me a letter saying that this will be her last month for stabling Jive. I always ask for a month or two notice for termination just so that it will give me ample time to find another person to stable Jive. Which I believe is the right thing to do. Right??I hope things will turn out for the better. I can't afford full stabling of Jive... NOT at ALL! =(... poor baby.

FRIDGE-TO-GO

2009-03-11T01:52:00.002+08:00

I love my FTG! Really keeps my drinks and carrots cold for hours!! My next project is the Victoria model which is 6 cans bigger than my Mini. If you are interested you can ORDER HERE or CHECK OUT this SITE.

SCRUB ME YUMMY

2009-03-04T21:04:00.003+08:00

Oooh. Just the title alone send tingles up my spine. Well, it's probably the closest I'll get to a... yeah. Once again, the fab and hip Mommas behind Indigo Baby have come up with this ooh lala body scrub leaving your skin soft and supple ready for those naughty nights. Hahaha. It's an edible peppermint scrub with Sweet Almond Oil, Sugar, Peppermint Pure Essential Oil. Get one and try it for yourself...

MOTHER EARTH CANVAS BAGS

2009-02-25T18:36:00.008+08:00

The problem with plastic: One trillion plastic bags are used every year that will never biodegrade. It uses up natural resources and energy. It’s killing our marine life. It’s over-running our planet!

Don’t let it take over! Let’s reclaim our planet from the clutches of plastic...one bag at a time. Use our reusable shopping bags for all your purchases and you can save Mother Earth from hundreds of plastic bags a year (and that’s just you!).

Mother Earth won't be the only one you'll help. These bags are expertly made by the hard-working women of The Livelihood Shop, a livelihood center that has been employing the underprivileged women of Taguig for the past 21 years. By purchasing and using these bags, you are providing a means of living to this special group of disadvantaged women.

Use this Mother Earth bag as if life depended on it. Because it does.

Love our Mother Earth, we only have one.

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AM I MISSING OUT?

2009-02-23T01:33:00.006+08:00

I don't go out anymore. My life has been Luis, home, Polo, PT, and the grocery. By the end of the day, going out is the last thing on my mind. Dialing for my masahista beats any going out, a lot cheaper too. As people know, I hardly check my Facebook account. I only check for pictures and that's basically it. I find it too chaotic. Too many things going on. I have been having family dinners, lunches, merienda cenas, and everything else with food in it. It makes me happy but I wonder if I'm missing out on being a 30-something single mom. I see my friend's pictures and they seem to be out all the time. They have kids too, three even, and yet they have time to be out all the time. My best bud and constant companion now is my 9 year old son. No doubt about it, we have a blast all in the comforts of my room. It's like we have room service on a daily basis since my mom eats out all the time. In a week, she only has dinner here once or twice at the most. I don't know where she gets the energy.

It's a known fact that if my mom or dad can't stay with Luis, I don't leave him. I guess now, I really have no one to leave Luis with since my mom is out all the time and obviously my dad is no longer around. I'm on the net 24/7 practically checking on my small business, looking around for more things or services to resell and just surfing. Although, I must admit, I'm having a hard time with the puny laptop that does not have the programs I need for basic desktop publishing. I wonder when I'll get my own laptop finally? How many bottles of this and that will I need to sell?

I'm missing all these movies that I can watch for FREE but I don't really have a regular person or group to watch movies with. My dear friend who is usually the easiest to take to the movies with me is and will be bedridden until she gives birth. We used to have 2 drivers but one was let go since my dad passed away. The one that got left behind goes home every Tuesdays and Thursdays and will ask for overtime pay if I use him after 8pm. Wtf?! After a certain time at night, the helpers retreat to their 3rd floor attic and disappear afraid that the ass is going to make them utos this and that especially if my mom is not at home. So after cleaning and washing duties, 4 of them scramble away like ants, even running up the stairs 2 or 3 steps at a time just to avoid the ass.

Speaking of the ass, my cousins and I planned a beach trip to Montemar last December. On the 9th day of my dad's Novena prayers, the ass was so loud and planning this and that about going to the beach. Dang, when I overheard him, right away, my brain switched off and deleted any beach trip planning even though I was in charge of the e-group site. 2 days before the beach trip, my mom asks the ass if he was going, he said NO! Putang ina! I swear I wanted to kill him! I am not one to use swear words in my daily vocab but when I do ohboy! stay clear. I could have gone but it's not that easy for me to just pack up and go. I have to plan. It just goes to show that ANYTHING that comes out from the asses mouth is PURE BULL and ALL for SHOW! It was my fault that I tuned off as soon as I heard the news that the ass was going, I should have made the bookings, and really plan. Next time. Shit! Inisahan ako.

You should see the maids' faces when they find out that my mom, Luis and I are eating out. It's like "Maam! Help US!" It's like they really want my mom to have dinner at home. The cook especially. Why won't anyone believe me that that ass needs mental help?! My mom is obviously in denial all the time. She was hynotized by that ass some way. See it's 2:36am and guess what I can smell some canned good being cooked. It's either luncheon meat or something. Puneta, if that ass denies it, tang...!! Hell will break loose again. Then again, the more processed meats that ass eats the faster he will die!! Yay! Doesn't my mom see that NO ONE wants to be with that ass? Doesn't my mom see that NO ONE pays attention to him at all?? Everyone thinks he is an ass any way. hay... useless! Really useless. I pray that he gets kicked out of the house SOON!!!!!

GOSH! It's Been Ages

2009-02-18T23:29:00.003+08:00

I haven't had time to blog about anything really. I haven't even finished my post about my dad. =(. So many things happening (non-stop eating, dinners and lunches!) All I would really talk about would be FOOD! Hahaha!. Other than that it would be the weekly grind I have. Pick up Luis from school, take him to tennis, hang out with T. Marivic (riding), give Jive her carrots, PT, grocery, cooking, my Wednesday Day-Off, and in between my small business. =) I don't even go out anymore. This afternoon, i took a swig of white wine while cooking Mushroom Risotto and I got dizzy!!! Hahaha.

Now that my dad is gone, I realized that I have no one to leave Luis with if ever I go out at night. Usually, Pappy stays home all the time and I was sure that he would be with Luis. My mom is always out which is good for her but wow, her social life is off the roof. I get tired knowing that she is always out. Believe me, she has not eaten dinner here at home more than 5 times a week. I wish I could have a life like that. Although, I know she misses my dad.Well, we all do. We just have our way of coping.

That other thing that lives here too is impossible. Just because my dad is no longer around, it does NOT mean that the RULES have changed. See, one guy was banned from coming over. The same day, weekend, that my dad passed away, that guy was practically living here. The next weekend, he was here again, even sleeping in that ass' car. Gross!! Gosh, I can go on and on with what that ass P has been doing. Worst now since he knows that he has my mom wrapped around his finger. Ha! With 8 other people plus Luis and I, I really HOPE and WISH that my mother will FINALLY see and believe what that ass is about. He may get away with murder with my mom, NOT with me and 8 other people watching. I have gone to lengths of even telling my mom's sisters and sisters-in-law to what that ass does! I have been openly sharing with my cousins every things that ass has been doing and will be doing. How I wish we had surveillance cameras all over the house just so that my mom will FINALLY believe me.

Like I said, I am not going to stop and I am known to be very very stubborn. =)

I have missed all my fav TV shows. I just have to wait for the marathon dvds! yay!

Gotta catch some zzzzs. Be safe! Be good.

B.

MANUEL P.V. del ROSARIO (Manolo)

2009-02-02T13:31:00.002+08:00

(will continue when I have more time.)

CLAUDIA TURNS 1!!

2009-01-04T23:05:00.002+08:00

The baby of group turns one. A video made The Stork Studio.

2008 CHRISTMAS GATHERINGS

2008-12-29T15:39:00.004+08:00

December 6, 2008 - Tiwatiw at Hacienda Carpio - Baccay

December 15, 2008 - Dinner with the GIRLS

December 24, 2008 - Araneta Christmas Lunch

December 24, 2008 - Noche Buena with the del Rosarios

December 25, 2008 - del Rosario-Perez Christmas Dinner

CHRISTMAS CHRISTMAS TIME IS HERE...

2008-12-28T11:46:00.007+08:00

Time for joy and time for cheer... I don't know the rest of the song. Hahaha. It's been a crazy month. I must admit that I have been sucked into the Twilight Saga phenomenal only because I read all 4 books (Twilight, New Moon, Eclipse, & Breaking Dawn) and Twilight 2x and watched the movie giddily 4x, once even by myself. Thus, not much blogging rather, as you have seen in previous posts, clips from the movie literally taking to heart Edward's heart melting lines. C'mon who wouldn't want that in a man?? I'm just being honest here. I don't care if it's baduy. Hahaha. Like I said, I get my kicks wherever I can.

The Lifeline ambulance and paramedics have been a frequent sight on my street, especially on our driveway. My Pappy (dad) has been in and out of the hospital almost every month and this month twice even. Each confinement is due to new symptoms, new findings, and complications. It has come to the point that confinement is just like a regular check up. Today, I woke up finding my mom in shorts and her Crocs fixing up the library or the computer hall. But wait!? Today is a Sunday, a sacred golf day for my mom, that is why we attend mass on Saturday nights, what is she doing home? I was not surprised when she said that my dad was hospitalized again. Ah ok... Just going about our daily routines. In fact, Luis and I were getting ready for a birthday party in Quezon City, while my mom and her yaya were packing for yet another hospital sleepover or like 2 weeks ago, 1 week stay. My poor mom had to sleep in the hospital with my dad not ever coming home. Well, I know and we know her reasons. So be it.

I have to thank on-line shopping for making this Christmas semi-stress free. Yup, almost all the gifts I gave were via on-line local multiply shopping sites. Yipee! My stress was from something and someone else!!! Haha!!

One night in the hospital, while having dinner with my family, I get a call from a disgruntled parent who was shocked by what my son said. In fact it was a YM message between my son and another boy. So, my question was, what was that disgruntled father doing reading a message between two boys, and NOT his daughter in the first place? Because the message was checked and opened in his house, he had the right to read it? Hmm, I don't think so. So, yes, I admit that whatever my son typed to his friend was downright wrong in all aspects and my son was reprimanded for his actions, all I can really do and will do is apologize for what my on said. Nothing more. Nothing less. However, this father wanted more from me. I think he wanted me to apologize to his daughter for implicating her name. Ha!?! Over my dead body. Why? Because this father does NOT have a clue of what his daughter had done to my son through the years which I kept mum about and just explained and talked to my son instead. My son has chosen NOT to be friends with this girl anymore. In fact, I believe it was just after school started. It's been months since. I think this girl couldn't take the fact that my son has chosen to ignore her completely despite calling him here at home, or on his cellphone. So what does she do? She sends him a YM message and still he ignores her. My son is so fed up with her games and with her just wanted to ignore her. But the pestering did not stop which probably provoked my son to say those insulting words. He couldn't say it to her face so he expressed his anger and frustration through his friend. Unfortunately, this uptight father saw it. You know what, I think this daughter showed it to her father to get my son into trouble because clearly, she was being ignored. She can't take being ignored. She will do anything to get what she wants at the expense of others. So, after a lengthy, voice raising, name calling, conversation between the father and I, he chose NOT to be friends with me anymore. Do you think I even care?! Thank GOD he is out of our lives. Every one knows that when one provokes me, and has tested my very short temper, they are going to get it from me no matter how it cuts deep in your gut. I will tell them the truth even though it hurts. Believe me, my dear parents are the number one victims of my lashing out. Gosh, I didn't even hit the tip of the iceberg with what I said about his precious little spoiled brat daughter. Hahahahaha! I didn't waste my time having to explain to him or defend my son. I don't have to do that at all. Sayang lang laway ko. =)

In all good will, I apologized to the mother, who is my friend, for what my son said. Again, that was it. I even said that, whatever happened between her husband and I, I hope it didn't change our friendship. As for the husband, to hell with him. End of story. I said or she said that we would just see each other in the party the following day. Good. Done.

Luis' school chose 20 kids to perform and join the Rockwell Mall "I heart Xmas competition". The ages of the kids ranged from the 1st grade to the 4th. Luis was the only 4th grader. December 6 was the first performance and won 2nd place. Two weeks later, Rockwell asked Esteban to sing again. A special performance before the main competition. The night before the competition, not thinking of it as anything major, Luis got invited to my tita's office Christmas party. Fine. I let him. He got home at midnight. That night too was my titos birthday and we had mass and merienda cena with the relatives here at home. Also, it was Magallanes Group Christmas party.

During the party the other moms were laughing so hard about something that I didn't catch on since I arrived late. As soon as I caught on the conversation, I got shocked and started laughing too. PLB was going to have a "concert" the following day and was not allowed to do or eat or drink anything that will ruin her voice. I seriously thought that i was some major concert and truly, i was happy for her. But when I realized what "concert" they were pertaining too, I couldn't help but join in laughing spree. It was the same MALL singing competition that my son was singing in. Hahahahahaha! Geez, all the hype for what??? Ok fine, I'm glad that PLB's school placed 2nd place in the grand finals. I mean, Luis' school was just a special guest, but for God's sake, it's just a friendly Christmas performance in the center of the mall with a cash prize for grabs, not a freaking CONCERT!!! Well, like I said, I have my ways too. I did NOT mention a single word to the mother of PLB that Luis was singing in the same "concert". I just let their jaws drop when Luis was on stage with the rest of his school. Mother of PLB greeted me as expected, where do you think Father of the PLB was?? Nowhere in site. Hahahaha. I was sitting in the 2nd row bench, he didn't dare pass my way. I did not involve my son either, he was just as surprise that PLB was there too. Well, didn't bother to watch PLB either besides, 530pm mass was more important.

The usual pre-Christmas festivities, lunch with my mother's side clan, mass, noche buena, and Christmas Day Dinner with my father's side. (Will write about this next time)

Yesterday, the usual Saturday afternoon, I get a call/text from my neighbor saying that she is craving for this new tuna grille restaurant that just opened right outside our village. Food?! I'm there! So we agreed that we would meet after I go to mass at 530 and eat to our hearts delight. Also, so that her son and my son can finally see each other. Turn of events blindly flashed before my eyes. PLB was so irritatingly calling, texting, and whatever ways of communicating she knows of, to get a hold (or should I say suffocatingly) of my neighbor's son. To the point that neighbor's son didn't mention where he and his mother was having dinner even though he knew the truth. PLB not contented, made her mother call neighbor, asking for neighbor's son to play with her. Neighbor, being honest, said that she was meeting my son and I for an early dinner. In fact, mother of PLB was invited too but mother of PLB made stupid excuses of why she couldn't go. What excuse? Because PLB and Mother of PLB are allergic to tuna or any seafood. GEEZ!!! There is always Pork Chops!!! Hahahaha! So fine, I didn't want any of them ruining my dinner either. What really got to me was that, MPLB (I'm sure you have caught on), said this "Kumain kayo ni Bettina sa labas pero iwanan mo sa akin si (name of son)" (Sure, eat out with Bettina, but leave your son with me.)

What the fuck?! MPLB and PLB are really doing this not making my son and neighbor's son see or play with each other on purpose. Just because MPLB knows that my son and neighbor's son are going to see each other without the fucking PLB around, she will "steal" neighbor's son. Prior note: These kids all grew up together. It's just that my son goes to a different school. Fact: PLB and neighbor's son are classmates. In fact, seatmates!! So why can't my son spend time with neighbor's son at all??? They haven't seen each other in months. WHY?? Because Precious Little Brat and Mother are conniving little shits. It's all in the family!!! So, what happened? Neighbor, Luis, and I had a sumptuous meal together, had coffee at Starbucks, and walked home. My son felt bad that he didn't see his friend but at least he didn't complain, whine and cry out his lungs with fake tears. Luis did ask tita neighbor to call his friend. Guess what, PLB wouldn't allow him to see my son. So neighbor's son was trapped! Neighbor was already distraught because her son really wanted to eat where we ate and really wanted to have a Starbucks Frap. On the way home, Luis even thought of showing up in PLB's doorstep. Hahaha. We should have to give them a heart attack. Like I said, I have my ways.... Hahaha. Well, seriously, I will NOT stoop down to their level. Gosh, if only you knew the horror stories I have seen, witnessed, done to, about this set of immature people, you will truly understand everything.

Phew...well that's off my chest. Ignore. Ignore. Ignore. So, how were your holidays?

MADE my OWN TOO

2008-12-23T00:32:00.001+08:00

Haaaaaaaaaaay! LLP!

2008-12-22T20:44:00.009+08:00

there were 4 to 5 vidoes here but due to copyright matters, they are no longer available. But I found my favorite...

Leave Out All the Rest

2008-12-11T00:00:00.003+08:00

I dreamed I was missing

You were so scared

But no one would listen

Cause no one else cared

After my dreaming

I woke with this fear

What am I leaving

When I'm done here

So if you're asking me

I want you to know

When my time comes

Forget the wrong that I've done

Help me leave behind some

Reasons to be missed

And don't resent me

And when you're feeling empty

Keep me in your memory

Leave out all the rest

Don't be afraid

I've taken my beating

I've shared what I made

I'm strong on the surface

Not all the way through

I've never been perfect

But neither have you

So if you're asking me

I want you to know

When my time comes

Forget the wrong that I've done

Help me leave behind some

Reasons to be missed

Don't resent me

And when you're feeling empty

Keep me in your memory

Leave out all the rest

Forgetting

All the hurt inside

You've learned to hide so well

Pretending

Someone else can come and save me from myself

I can't be who you are

When my time comes

Forget the wrong that I've done

Help me leave behind some

Reasons to be missed

Don't resent me

And when you're feeling empty

Keep me in your memory

Leave out all the rest

Forgetting

All the hurt inside

You've learned to hide so well

Pretending

Someone else can come and save me from myself

I can't be who you are

- Linkin Park

IT's FRIDAY I'M ... InLoVe? Hahaha!

2008-12-05T09:13:00.002+08:00

It's my parents' 39th year wedding anniversary today. Yikes and congrats! They made it this far. Just like any relationship, there are mountains, hills, and valleys to trek through. But once you surpass it, anything that gets thrown at you would be an easy catch.

I'm suppose to be at the Recyclers Fair now but ever since that Furosato semi food poisoning my stomach easily gets upset...you know the three letter abbreviation that ends with a "M". Hahaha. With no immediate bathroom near by, I don't think I can risk it. Hahaha.

It's a long day ahead. Have to pick up Luis from school, take him to tennis, go riding, rush home and get ready for dinner. I still have the morning time to kill...

I have a confession, I watched Twilight for the 3rd time yesterday while waiting for Luis to get out of school. I watched alone too. The theatre was not full which was good. Then again, many people were watching by themselves. So I didn't feel so left out. You don't even feel that 2 hours and 5 minutes passed by. I love Rockwell.

I had breakfast already...hmm...nap time? Hahaha.

DAY OFF WEDNESDAYS

2008-12-03T15:13:00.002+08:00

Since I lent my New Moon book to Monica, I had to skip it and move on to Eclipse as my night cap read. I'm telling you everything is better the second time around. Of course now I have Robert Pattinson in my head every time I read the name Edward. Yeah yeah yeah it's juvenile for a 32 year old to be rereading this series again...but you know what...I don't care. I'm enjoying myself and that is what counts. Honestly, I'm itching to watch the movie for the 3rd time. Maybe tomorrow while waiting for my son to finish his caroling practice for Rockwell Christmas thingy. Anyone want to watch with me?

Luis came to my room even before our 6:45am bell rang all dressed up for school. He confessed to me that he didnt do his homework and was waiting for my mom to help him out. My mom came home at around midnight. Well, Luis knows not to ask me for help when it comes to anything resembling math equations, so the poor thing did his work early morning before school. Talk about trained. Hahaha... I should feel guilty because I was not able to help him but I'm not... because I wouldnt know how to teach him either. Oh well. Waiting for him now...

I'm missing so many of my US Episodes because my uTorrent is acting up. I shouldn't have replaced my old version to a newer one. Dang!!! Oh well... there goes my day off Wednesdays.

A Normal Guy vs Edward Cullen

2008-12-01T14:52:00.001+08:00

A Normal Guy vs Edward Cullen

A normal guy would say: “I love you Baby!”
Edward Cullen would say: “You are my life now.”

Normal Guy would say: “I think I am falling for you.”
Edward Cullen would say: “The Lion fell in Love with the Lamb”

Normal Guy would say: “You hair looks like a haystack; go brush it!”
Edward Cullen would say: “Your hair looks like a haystack but I like it.”

A normal guy would pick a random song from a random artist and dedicate it to you.
Edward Cullen would sing you a song he wrote for you while playing the piano.

If you die, a normal guy would find another.
If you die, Edward would kill himself cause life without you isn’t worth living.

“Well, I wasn’t going to live without you..” He rolled his eyes as if that fact were childishly obvious. “..but I wasn’t sure how to do it. I knew Emmet and Jasper would never help so I was thinking maybe I would go to Italy and do something to provoke the Volturi.”

As you leave the house, a normal guy would say: “Bye, see ya!”
As you leave the house Edward Cullen would say: “Come back to me, love.”

He smiled my favorite smile. “Hurry back to me.”
“Always.”

As you come back to the house, a normal guy would be watching TV and wouldn’t even notice.
As you come back to the house, Edward Cullen would be welcoming you by playing the piano with a song just for you.

“I heard the music before I was out of the car. Edward hadn’t touched his piano since the night Alice left. Now, as I shut the door, I heard the song morph through a bridge and change into my lullaby. Edward was welcoming me home.’

A normal guy would wait for you to make him breakfast.
Edward Cullen would make you breakfast everyday.

While you are both out for dinner, a normal guy wouldn’t keep his eyes off the sexy waitress.
Edward Cullen wouldn’t even notice the waitress was a female.

A normal guy , while driving, would keep one hand on the wheel and one hand on the radio.
Edward Cullen , while driving, would keep one hand on the wheel and the other attached to yours.

While far apart in different places, a normal guy would say: “I miss you.”
While far apart in different places, Edward Cullen would say: “It’s like you’ve taken half myself with you”

A normal guy wouldn’t care or notice if you had nightmares.
Edward Cullen would sing until your nightmares went away.
“Do you want me to sing to you? I’ll sing all night if it will keep the bad dreams away.”

A normal guy does it with everyone.
Edward Cullen only does it with one .

A normal guy buys you flowers and chocolates.
Edward Cullen buys you a car.

http://heart-2-heart-online.com/2008/11/27/does-edward-cullen-exist/#comment-5533

HE is SUCH a DORK...but I love him!!!

2008-11-29T14:14:00.000+08:00

TWILIGHT

2008-11-29T00:00:00.004+08:00

I watched it on the first day with my cousin, I watched it this afternoon with my son. Luis wants to watch it again. Anyone want to watch it again? Hahaha...Seriously....

IN LOVE WITH...the Cullen HOUSE

2008-11-27T11:33:00.006+08:00

http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/la/look/on-the-set-twilight-066653

A HECTIC DRAMATIC WEEK

2008-11-09T23:00:00.004+08:00

I'm still breathless from the week that went. Saturday was Ninong Dachi's 40th day and T. May's birthday. So there was mass and dinner in Alabang. Sunday, it was T. Bambi's birthday this time. Before getting picked up by T. Lou and Chachi, I was just informed that someone was just killed a a street away from our house. Yikes! My mom played golf as always. Pappy opted not to go because he was not feeling well. Late that night, as I was about to sleep, my mom comes knocking on my door frantic asking for the emergency, 16-911. Pappy's blood sugar was so low that he was hypoglycemic, he was slurring and I believe even lost his sight. Thank God that I had a bottle of pineapple juice in the ref. My uncle's midwife was frantic looking for the bottle of juice which was nowhere to be found. The cook and helpers hid it from that baboy because we all know that he would finish it not thinking that it's emergency juice for my pappy. Stupid ass! Anyway, my pappy was really hallucinating and even crying. Scary! It's was a good thing that the ambulance came in time. When the ambulance came, my pappy didn't understand why the ambulance was there. That's how disoriented he was. The ambulance took my pappy and mommy to the hospital and I went to sleep.

Would you believe that when I woke up Monday, my pappy was off to work? As if nothing happened. The usual Monday wherein I pick up Luis from school and take him to tennis. I stopped by the stables and hung around with T. Marivic and Dedet. Tuesday, I go about my usual PT regimen, pick up Luis from school and get dropped off in SM for some much needed grocery. Since my mom said that she needed the car at 4:30, I said that Luis and I would just take a cab. No problem. Cheaper even since parking is 40 bucks and merienda is less than a hundred buck. Taxi costs 50 pesos only. Then, I get a schock...T. Louie Senn just passed away. I was texting with my cousin Rachel, and she gave me the details...how sad indeed. =(. Wednesday was the wake and mass. Thursday was the same. Luis was with me. My mom picked us up at 11pm plus the additional chit chat with other relatives. Towards the end, it was a nice round the table glass of wine with T. Marilou, Sito, Rachel, and Kiko. Getting psyched for the 9am burial mass the following day. Having to get ready early, I got Luis ready and I was giving last minute instruction to him for the long day ahead, I see that ass pass the corridor with a girl in pink following him.

Tang ina, that girl spent the night here. What nerve that ass has!! Do you think he even went to the burial mass? NO. What an disrespectful asshole. A member of the family passes away and here he is bringing home girls to sleep in his room?? What do you call that???!!! I know it has been happening, because I believe the helpers, but this time, I saw it with my own eyes. I went directly to my moms room and told her about it. The ass denied it. What a fucking asshole! Well, the drivers saw them leave, two maids saw them too, and I saw it. So that's 4 witnesses against a fucking liar! To think that just the day before, my pappy catches him making out with the girl. Grabe... he is making our house a whorehouse!

The burial was so solemn and quick. The rest of the family headed to Alabang, to Tito Louie's final resting place. The resting place where Lola Manchi, Lolo Ramon, T. Chiquita, and all the unborn or still born or a month old babies of the family were. Sad but knowing that they are all in a better place gives one gratification. There was brunch in Tito Bomboy's house after.

Rode with Kiko and Rachel and super cute Cristina home since our boys, who were together, had tennis at 5pm. Phew... long long day. Saturday was mass at 6pm in San Antonio and novena after. Today, i just rested. Luis and Pappy went to Rockwell and watched the 007 movie... Yup, that was the week...

OBAMA WINS PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION

2008-11-05T15:22:00.003+08:00

ONE DAY...

2008-10-30T23:16:00.001+08:00

I picked up Luis from school and this is how he looked like...